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Most negotiation books or courses emphasize the importance of figuring out the dominant negotiating style of the party sitting across the table from you. As Chriss Voss, a former FBI hostage negotiator and author of Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depends on It explains, there are basically only three: Accommodator, Assertive, and Analyst.
The common refrain mentioned by women who initiate divorce is: “He doesn’t listen to me.” It’s probably more like a situation whereby the husband has been listening all along, but he just doesn’t know how to engage his wife in a way that makes she feel heard.